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Third Annual Fundraiser BBQ 2013

Come to our Annual BBQ Picnic!

Lots of friends, fun, and food!

When: Saturday, August 3, 2020
Time: 1-6pm
Where: Arsenal Park, 485 Arsenal St, Watertown, MA
Price: $20 online RSVP; $25 cash day of (sliding scale email:

Your ticket gives you access to all the food at the BBQ.  It also helps to cover the cost of registration and materials incurred by hosting a booth at the Boston Pride Festival.  We are a volunteer-run organization and we rely on your generosity and participation to sustain operations. The Annual BBQ is by far our largest event, because of you!  Come, have a good time, meet some new people, eat some tasty food and help us raise some funds to help cover the cost of being out, proud and Asian in Boston!

The BBQ will again take place at the sprawling 13-acre Arsenal Park in Watertown. There will be ribs, steak, wings, hot dogs, vegetarian fare, and drinks. If you want to bring a dish, please do, it is welcome but not required. Feel free to bring frisbees, foot/soft balls, water guns, cards, board games.  Help us get the word out!  Bring a partner, bring a roommate, bring an ally, bring your mom — everyone is welcome! (but don’t bring your dog because the park doesn’t allow it)

Please reserve your ticket ahead of time, $20 online (via meetup) / $25 day of. On the day of, you can pay with cash, check, or even with credit/debit cards! Please let us know if funds are an issue by emailing us at for a sliding scale. This event is the main fundraiser QAPA holds, but we would love as many people to come as possible.

Arsenal Park is accessible via the 70 Bus route which passes through Central Square, by the T station. We will also be organizing car pool on Meetup.

With thanks and love,

QAPA Steering

QAPA is committed to providing a supportive social, political, and educational environment for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning people of Asian and Pacific Islander heritage in the Boston and New England area.

Senate Passes Immigration Reform Bill in Historic Week in Washington

For Immediate Release
June 27, 2020

Contact: Ben de Guzman
NQAPIA Co-Director for Programs
Phone: 202-422-4909

Washington, DC: Today, the Senate voted 68-32 to pass long-awaited comprehensive immigration reform, the Border Security, Economic Opportunity, and Immigration Modernization Act. The National Queer Asian Pacific Islander Alliance (NQAPIA) sees progress in today’s vote for the Asian American, South Asian, Southeast Asian, and Pacific Islander (AAPI) lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) communities we serve, but also some challenges and some hard questions that are yet to be answered as the bill moves to the House of Representatives. We continue to fight for comprehensive immigration reform legislation that works for all families, immigrant and citizen, LGBT and straight, alike.

The legislation includes provisions important to AAPI LGBTs, including: a path to citizenship for undocumented immigrants; elimination of the backlog of family visas; elimination of the one-year deadline to file for asylum; and some specific improvements for conditions in detention centers. Unfortunately, the immigration package also strikes a twofold blow to AAPI LGBT families. The deal ends sibling sponsorship and family sponsorship for married children over 30. After bitter negotiation, it also fails to include the sponsorship privileges for foreign same-sex partners of Americans that married straight couples enjoy.

The vote comes on the heels of a celebrated historic victory for marriage equality at the Supreme Court on Wednesday. The ruling resolves immigration issues for certain binational same-sex couples, but NQAPIA continues to fight for all those affected by the broken immigration system. At least 267,000 undocumented immigrants LGBT, a population that is disproportionately Asian. As crowds cheered on the steps of the Supreme Court, NQAPIA delivered over 2,700 postcards to the Senate in support of comprehensive immigration reform, proving the LGBTQ movement can walk and chew gum at the same time. Joined by Tony Choi, an openly gay undocumented immigrant from Korea, NQAPIA gave postcards directly to Tony’s Senator Bob Menendez (D-NJ), a member of the “Gang of Eight” who pushed the legislation through, as well as Senator Tammy Baldwin (D-WI), the first openly lesbian Senator.

“We witnessed history this week” said Ben de Guzman, NQAPIA Co-Director for Programs, “and our communities are at the center of all the action on both comprehensive immigration reform and marriage equality. We’ve never been a single issue community, and we’ve proven that the movement can walk and chew gum at the same time. Now we take the fight from the Supreme Court and the Senate to the House, the next battleground for immigration reform.”

NQAPIA statement


In light of recent events, we just want to emphasize how important community and support systems are. We had the honor of having Marsha Aizumi come speak at Makeshift earlier this month and prior we had a group discussion about coming out (part of our QAPA Speaks Out series). The Boston Marathon bombings showed us that we can unite together to heal. When we are reminded of our mortality, we feel the universal vulnerability that deeply connects us.

When we are struggling with our sexual orientation, coming out, or grief, we turn to those that we love and trust most. Marsha Aizumi showed us the power of a family’s love and acceptance. Our Coming Out discussion revealed that many of us relied on close friends to give us courage and confidence. The Boston Strong spirit that runs through our area now shows that even strangers can instinctively rush to rescue in times of our need. The point is - you never nor should you have to go through any of these life changing moments alone.

We are so thankful for those that have come to our events, and even those who haven’t just yet. QAPA is nothing without the care and consistent support we have received. Please do not hesitate to reach out to us if there is something we can help with. We are more reliant on each other than we ever realise, and we hope to see you soon.

Special thanks to Marsha Aizumi for graciously sharing her new book and personal journey with her trans* son. If you would like to read her heartwarming story, please check out her book, “Two Spirits, One Heart.” Special thanks to MakeShift for generously helping us provide the space for the intimate event.


In the wake of the dramatic tragedy that has torn our humble city apart.  We go about the process of healing and stitching ourselves back together.

Our friends at the Meeting Point are hosting a conversation for those looking for assistance in this process.

Marathon tragedy

QAPA Speaks Out: Queerness and Religion

Often we find that we have to separate our parts to feel like we belong somewhere. We go to queer groups and then even those groups can be further subdivded. Our discussion last week with theologian Patrick S. Cheng was insightful because it encouraged us to embrace the intersection of our identities.

We don’t have to separate our need for a spiritual fulfillment from our queer identity. Religious extremists make it easy for us to forget that religion is not exclusive with the social conservatism that ostracizes us. We may long for that social unity that happens so infrequently in our communities; often these communities may be centralized in a religious setting. For example, I grew up in a sparsely Asian-populated area so church or temple were the few times the community would unite to socialize and keep our cultures - our roots alive. For us to deny those cultural or religious roots can be painful or cause “spirtual abuse.”

It doesn’t have to be this way! There are many religious communities that opened their doors to the queer community. Whether you can wander into a church, temple, synagoue, or mosque, you can also look for other resources to help reconcile your spirirtual and queer identity. There are plenty of online groups and forums (For starters: LGBT Religious Archives: Patrick S. Cheng is also releasing a book soon called Rainbow Theology: Bridging Race, Sexuality, and Spirit. More info on his book here:

We want to thank Patrick S. Cheng for his resources and outreach in our discussion, and of course many thanks to our attendees!

EDIT: Patrick S. Cheng will be speaking at Trinity Church on May 5, 2020 about his newly released Rainbow Theology book! More details at:

Boston LGBT Immigration Forum

QAPA is excited to partner with NQAPIA, MAP for Health, PRYSM, MASALA and GLAD to address the policies that substantially impact LGBT Asian lives.

Please join us for an evening focused on Comprehensive Immigration Reform and how it impacts LGBT Asian Americans. Share your/your family’s story or come to listen. Refreshments and refreshing conversation will be provided. You bring the networking and community. We’ll bring the latest information locally and nationally about the national debate around immigrants’ rights and how YOU can get involved!

Thursday, March 21st, 6:30pm

Held at MAP for Health, 324 Tremont Street, Boston, MA

RSVP Here via Meetup,  or  RSVP Here via Facebook


According to the U.S. Census Bureau, there are about 35,000 same sex bi-national couples where one partner is a US citizen or legal permanent resident and the other is a foreign national.  There are over 400,000 Asian Americans, South Asians, Southeast Asians and Pacific Islanders (AAPI) in the states of Massachusetts and Rhode Island, over 60% of them are immigrants.

With President Obama passing the Dream Act, the time is NOW for comprehensive immigration reform.

Year of the Snake 2013 Festivities

We had great time at Chau Chow City on February 2, 2021 to celebrate the Year of the Snake!  We shared food family style, and were able to even do a bit of fundraising through the generosity of our members. There were new and old members

After dinner, we didn’t want to part ways just yet and we went to have some bubble tea and continued conversations. QAPA wishes everyone an incredible year, and if you’re not done celebrating yet. There is the Quincy Lunar New Year Festival this Sunday, March 10th (postponed from February 24 due to weather). We will be tabling this year starting noon time. Come by and say hi and enjoy the festivities! You can RSVP on our meetup page for more details.

The Lunar New Year is a special time for families to gather and reflect. We have a year to hope for better things to come not only for our real family, but for the “families” that we have discovered through our communities. QAPA is very lucky to have this family and we cannot wait to contribute more for 2013.

Come celebrate Lunar New Year with QAPA

Year of the Snake!

Having a snake in your house is a good omen, because it means you’ll never starve.

Come celebrate with QAPA at Chow Chau City at our annual Lunar New Year Dinner!  We’ll eat, drink, and be merry together.


For the first time, QAPA will have a presence at the Quincy Lunar New Year festival on Sunday, Feb 24th.  We would love some volunteers to help us table, give out information and be out!

Both of these events are listed on QAPA’s Meetup, your source for all events, good times and Gaysians in New England.

Trans Awareness Week

Thanks for looking through our archives!  I have since updated this posting about Trans Awareness Week.  You can find the post here.


The Wall of Pride Comes to Boston

QAPA is proud to bring the “Wall of Pride” to Boston.  API Family Pride is a San Francisco based organization which honors Asian families from across the United States who “courageously defied their community’s homophobia, risked isolation, and supported their LGBT children thereby reclaiming the strong family ties and proud sense of interdependence characteristic of API families.”

The Wall of Pride will be on display in the common space of The Meeting Point at 3464 Washington Street, Jamaica Plain, from August 29th through September 7th.  Please join us for a small reception with the founders of API Family Pride on the evening of Friday, September 7th from 7 to 10pm.

Parents and youth are strongly encouraged to attend.

This event is co-sponsored by QAPA, API Family Pride and The Meeting Point.


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